Thank God the courts don't rely on hearsay and marl road mixups to determine salient legal arguments.
Letting go of people who are not healthy for you is an essential part of personal growth!
I woke up Saturday morning to someone sending me the following social media post from Dr. Frank McField.
He claims that my upcoming dismissal application will be successful because the DPP's office has “a slam dunk case.” Most people don't even know anything about this case that was argued many months ago with a ruling that has been delayed about four times now. We are unable to report on the legal arguments because of orders from the court, but people like McField and Shahine McLaughlin can throw around all sorts of inaccurate posts on social media.
This would be a conclusion that he came to after him and proven con man John Felder has shared one-sided information. I have to conclude that people don't like to be held accountable, and they will take the side of wrong vs. right in order to bolster their own erroneous narrative. Proof to a man who refuses to see what is before him matters not!
I really thought we had moved past this on December 19, 2023, but I see some people are not able to let go of the past. Not even for their own good! Here I am pondering, how on earth is Dr. Frank willing to believe anything John Felder says when this man has blatantly lied to the courts and even his own lawyers?
During a hearing for damages, Felder doctored up receipts to “prove” to the court that he had lost money on battery orders because of a very accurate CMR article. CMR attempted to give evidence of this, but due to strict rules of evidence, it was not allowed. Imagine the audacity that someone must have – allowing completely false evidence to be presented to the Grand Court.
Instead, I contacted the company in Bermuda, and they indicated the real reason they stopped doing business with him was because of non-performance! He was never able to satisfactorily deliver on their order despite having received payment. It was then that they started to question his trustworthiness as a businessman and started some investigations on their own and discovered how dishonest he actually was in the Cayman Islands.
Imagine an entire liquidator's report that proves that John Felder is an extremely dishonest person in all aspects of his business life. This man used his own severely handicapped grandchild, who eventually died, in order to try to bolster his financial claims against me, knowing full well that there was concrete evidence that everything I said was true.
He has lied to his own business partners, tried to sell shares in a company that he did not have, and even lied to banks and third-party vendors. He also lied to his own lawyers, who eventually realized how bad things were and lost the case he had brought against me. To this day, he has not paid me a single dollar and continues to lie to people.
All of this evidence … But this the man that our wise 70-something-year-old Dr. Frank chooses to believe over his own Caymanian? Well, perhaps we should not be surprised because when some people live in the past, no amount of logic or documentation will allow them to see the truth.
The truth here, folks, is that Dr. Frank is hurt about things I've said about him. Well, I certainly see a pattern here of a man whose legacy will be that he was always in his feelings over past perceived wrongs and never able to move on. It's quite sad, really, because the amount of time and energy spent on this cannot ever be regained.
So, on this day of our lord 2024, I have to decide to truly be the more mature younger cousin here and simply decide to move on. Leave people alone who are struck in life as they are proven not to be capable. It is true that when you have nothing else to occupy your time, living in the past becomes your life!
We see him going on about a case he lost some 17 years ago after his restaurant business failed. Some might argue that living in the past is a sign of delusional thoughts or mental illness. I don't personally know … but I do know it's not healthy and blocks things from happening in your life now that will help you build a better future life.
From this day forward, I will do what I do best: completely cut another person out of my life for my own mental health and wellness. I will no longer speak to Dr. Frank. I don't want to hear about him from anyone, nor will I even think of him. 2024 is about focusing on building blocks, and that requires a concerted effort to move forward and not live in the past.
You cannot help anyone, willing to stay stuck. That will be their legacy, and you cannot allow it to be yours. You can only extricate yourself from the situation!
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